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Your Debt is Fully Paid {No Matter What Monday}

June 12, 2017 by Marissa Leave a Comment

Your debt is fully paid. Biblical encouragement, Scripture, and devotionals for women.

It’s happened to me twice now, and each time was surprising and impactful.

I’ve pulled up to the Starbucks window and found out that my (grande, non-fat, one-pump-caramel) latte was paid for by the driver in front of me. It feels strange to receive my drink without giving anything to the cashier. I accept the gift of a free latte because someone I don’t know paid the debt I owed.

It’s a beautiful picture of the Gospel. Romans 8:1 tells us, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

Condemnation is not a word we like to discuss. But God’s Word is clear that we are all sinners, and our sin deserves God’s punishment.

So how can Romans 8:1 say there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus? Has God decided to look the other way? Did He change His mind about sin? Is He just being nice?

There is now no condemnation because Someone else paid for our sin.

On the cross, Jesus took the punishment our sin deserved. God is fully satisfied with Jesus’s sacrifice and will not demand payment from those who are in Christ. Our debt has been paid. We freely receive the gift of God’s grace.

As we drink deeply of His grace, we are set free from trying to convince God and others that we’re good enough. We don’t have to keep looking around, hoping to be a little better than the next guy. We don’t have to keep striving, hoping the good works will outnumber the bad.

When Jesus took your punishment, He gave you His perfect, sinless record. If you are in Christ, when God looks at your life, He sees what Christ has done. You can walk in the joy and freedom of God’s grace.

No matter what you face this week, there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

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Random (and not-so-random) Acts of Christmas Kindness 2012!

November 28, 2012 by Marissa Leave a Comment

December is almost here . . . are you ready?  I know I’m enjoying this extra week between Thanksgiving and the reality of December and all it’s craziness.  I’m using it to finish wrapping gifts and addressing cards, but it’s also time to get organized for our Random Acts of Christmas Kindness project.  It was a huge blessing to the kids and me last year!

Last year, the school calendar gave us more than a week between the end of the school semester and Christmas day.  That was the time when we did most of our RACK projects.  This year will be a little more complicated, with the last day of school falling on December 20.

So this year’s Acts of Kindness will be a little less Random and a little more Planned.  I’ve got my list of RACK ideas and my December calendar, and I’m going to try to map out a few ideas for each week.  On my list, I’ve got one set of projects that we can do as we go places we already go . . . the bank, the grocery store, restaurants, etc.  There’s another set of ideas that will require a little extra planning or an extra trip somewhere.

And because it’s fun, but just not practical, to hand out money all over town, I’ve starred some ideas on the list that can be accomplished for less than $10.  Print out some cards and buy some candy canes, and you’re ready to spread Christmas joy with very little money required!

If you need some inspiration, check out my list of RACK ideas below or click on the link to download a PDF.  And here’s a PDF of the cards I print out, mount on card stock, and hand out along the way.   Leave me a comment and let me know what RACK you are planning for this December!

 

 

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RACK Update ~ Carols, coffee, and candy canes!

December 23, 2011 by Marissa Leave a Comment

We have been having a blast with our RACK projects in the last few days.  On Tuesday, we called our church office and got Starbucks orders from our pastor and church secretary and took them coffee and coffeecake.  It was so fun to see them and chat for awhile!  The boys are both very enamored with Pastor Chris, so I think they were thrilled to do something for him.

On Wednesday was my FAVORITE of all our RACK projects.  We went with some friends to sing Christmas carols in the chemotherapy treatment room at the oncology clinic.  Last December, when I was there receiving chemo, some nurses got together and sang carols for us.  I decided then that if I was able, I would bring my kids to sing the next Christmas.  So it was very meaningful to me to be able to go and spread joy to the nurses and patients there this year.  After the kids sang, I handed out candy canes to the patients and nurses and chatted with a few, then went around the clinic handing out candy canes to all my old friends.  Everyone was so excited to see my hair!  🙂

On Thursday, we got a Shell gift card and taped it to a gas pump.  Then we had a stake-out to see if it would get used.  I put it on the last pump so no one would see me, but as it turns out, the last pump doesn’t get used very often.  Despite all our cheering from inside our van for cars to pull up to “our” pump, no one did.  After about 20 minutes, we left and went to the grocery store and came back later.  The gift card was still there!  So I got out, moved it one pump over, and we resumed our stake-out.  About two minutes later, someone pulled up to the pump where the card USED to be.  We couldn’t believe it!  We waited another 20 minutes, but still no action on our pump.  We gave up and trust that the Lord brought just the right person along eventually!  We also enjoyed handing out candy canes to Salvation Army bell ringers as we ran errands that day.

Are you looking for a RACK project that only costs $1 and doesn’t even involve getting your kids out of the car?  Today we drove around taping our RACK cards and candy canes to ATM machines.  We also tried our Shell gas card trick again, this time putting them on busier gas pumps.  We got to see people get both of our cards . . . in both cases, they went ahead and paid for their gas, and then stood looking at the pump for awhile, looked around, and then took the Shell card for next time.  I guess when you encounter something that unexpected, it’s hard to know what to do at first!  We had a blast and felt like secret agents!

Our RACK 2011 project is almost done!  Tomorrow night we are hoping to take a plate of cookies to the people working at the desk in the emergency room.  Last year, I spent several hours on December 24 at the hospital receiving a blood transfusion, and I’m sure it’s no fun to work in the ER on Christmas Eve.  We’re looking forward to spreading some joy there, as we celebrate the birth of our Savior!

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RACK Update ~ Six days until Christmas!

December 19, 2011 by Marissa Leave a Comment

We have really been enjoying our Random Acts of Christmas Kindness project!  Last Thursday we went out to eat with our friend Tara, who was visiting from out of town.  I wanted to pay for someone else, but the check process at the restaurant where we were made that a little complicated.  So Tara suggested giving our server a huge tip.  It was a great idea!  We paid on our way out, and I gave the green RACK card to the cashier and asked her to give it to our server.  Once she realized what was happening, she was happy to be part of it.  Here’s a photo of Tara and the kids at the restaurant . . .

The next day, we went to the mall to double-up on RACK projects since I didn’t think we’d have time to do something over the weekend.  We went to see Santa, and I bought a picture just so I could have time at the cash register.  I handed the cashier cash to pay for the person behind me in line, along with one of our RACK cards.  When she read the card, she had tears in her eyes.  Then we hurried away as she turned her attention to the person behind us, who was prepared with a baby in a Santa dress.  🙂

Next we headed to the food court for lunch.  At Chick-fil-a, I gave the cashier two $10 bills and two of our RACK cards and asked him to treat a couple of people to lunch.  Apparently they do this at the Chick-fil-a drive-thru quite a bit, but the counter can be a little more difficult.  But I realized at this point in our RACK project that I was bringing joy to all my accomplices as they got to pass along good news and surprise the recipients of our RACK.  I love that part of it!

Today was one of our most fun RACK projects so far.  We met friends at the post office and handed out candy canes to the people standing in line.  The first woman that Will handed a candy cane to was so excited that she gave him a huge hug.  We even saw Nana there!  (She strategically planned her post office trip when she heard candy canes were being handed out at 11:30.  🙂 )  The kids seemed to have a lot of fun handing them out, and I like to think we improved the mood of that long line just a little bit.  This project took about 15 minutes and only a few dollars worth of candy canes–it will definitely become a family tradition!

Finally, my RACK for my kids in celebration of Christmas break . . . Christmas Crunch!

Now get out there and spread some Christmas joy!  More updates to come . . .

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