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Praise the Sovereign King {No Matter What Monday}

September 28, 2020 by Marissa Leave a Comment

Are you talking to yourself or listening to yourself? And why does it matter?

I love this quote from D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones: “Have you realized that most of your unhappiness in life is due to the fact that you are listening to yourself instead of talking to yourself?” 

When I’m listening to myself, I’m usually focused on my problems and wallowing in my emotions. In those moments, I need to talk to myself and remind myself of the truth about the Lord and His work in my life. 

That’s what David did in Psalm 103. He gave his own soul a little talking-to. He told himself—and other worshippers of God—to bless the Lord and remember all that He’s done. 

As we wrap up our month in Psalm 103, we see one last truth about the Lord and David’s response of praise in Psalm 103:19-22. 

“The LORD has established his throne in the heavens, and his kingdom rules over all . . . Bless the LORD, O my soul!” (Psalm 103:19, 22b)

Just in case there was any doubt about whether or not God can do all He has promised in this psalm, David spoke to himself about God’s sovereign rule over all. The Lord is on his throne. There is nothing that is beyond His reign. Everything falls under His royal authority. 

The sovereign King is worthy of the praise of all His creation: the angels who obey His voice (Psalm 103:20), all those who do His will (Psalm 103:21), all that He has created (Psalm 103:22a), and David himself (Psalm 103:22b). 

David bookended this psalm with the phrase, ‘Bless the LORD, O my soul” (Psalm 103:1, 22). He reminded himself of God’s goodness, listed out reasons to praise the Lord, and exhorted himself to praise God with all that he had. 

So how can you shift from listening to yourself to talking to yourself today? Take a minute to read through all of Psalm 103. Remind yourself of who God is and what He has done. Talk to yourself about His steadfast love, His generous forgiveness, His forever promises, and His sovereign rule. Don’t forget all the benefits you’ve been given in Christ. Remember and respond to your Redeemer with praise and thanksgiving. 

No matter what you face this week, praise your sovereign Redeemer and King. 

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God’s Steadfast Love is Everlasting {No Matter What Monday}

September 21, 2020 by Marissa Leave a Comment

There’s a saying in my part of the country—and maybe your part, too—“If you don’t like the weather today, just wait until tomorrow.” It’s especially true in the fall and spring, when the weather can change drastically from day to day and even from hour to hour. How am I supposed to tell my kids to dress for school when they need a coat in the morning and shorts in the afternoon? So much in life is constantly changing, whether it’s the weather or relationships or culture or parenting—it feels like nothing stays the same. 

We’re studying Psalm 103 this month, and we’ve seen David remember God’s benefits: His forgiveness, healing, redemption, sustaining power, and steadfast love.  In Psalm 103:15-18, David celebrates the eternality of God’s character. These truths he’s remembering aren’t just for a fleeting season. They’re not here today and gone tomorrow. The steadfast love and promises of God last forever. 

“But the steadfast love of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear him, and his righteousness to children’s children, to those who keep his covenant and remember to do his commandments.” (Psalm 103:17-18)

David contrasts God’s eternal character with the fleeting nature of man. In verses 15-16, he says we are like grass that the wind blows away. Nothing in our human world lasts forever—relationships change. Careers end. Bodies age and die. But the steadfast love of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting. He keeps His promises not just to us, but to the future generations that follow. 

Psalm 103:18 says this steadfast love is for those who keep His covenant. God made covenant promises to His people throughout the Old Testament. He promised to bless them, and they promised to obey. When the people failed to keep their part of the covenant, God sent His Son to live an obedient life and die for His covenant-breaking people. 

Galatians 3:29 tells us that if we belong to Christ, we are heirs to all God has promised. Because of Christ’s sacrifice, we are the covenant children of God who receive His promised, everlasting, steadfast love. 

No matter what you face this week, remember God’s everlasting, covenantal love. 

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God’s Steadfast Love and Forgiveness {No Matter What Monday}

September 14, 2020 by Marissa Leave a Comment

Do you remember the last time you were asked to introduce yourself to a new group of people? It always feels so awkward to me. I think, What were those things the group leader asked us to say? What do these people really want to know? It’s hard to sum up who you are in just a few sentences.   

This month we’re walking through Psalm 103 together as David remembers all of God’s benefits. In verses 6-14, David remembers what the Lord told His people about Himself: His righteousness, His character, and His forgiveness. 

“He made known his ways to Moses, his acts to the people of Israel. The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.” (Psalm 103:7-8) 

In Psalm 103:8, David echoes the words God spoke about Himself when He  proclaimed His name to Moses in Exodus 34:6. We know this is God’s character, because God chose to reveal Himself. The Lord is merciful. He is gracious. He is patient with us, and His constant, faithful love overflows. 

David continues in Psalm 103 to try to capture with words the steadfast love and forgiveness of God: 

“For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us.” (Psalm 103:11-12) 

David uses some big-time analogies to portray these benefits for God’s children. God’s steadfast love is as high as the heavens are above the earth. How far do the heavens reach? Further than our human minds can imagine! 

Our sins have been separated from us as far as the east is from the west. I wonder if David saw the sun rise in the east and set in the west and imagined places in both directions that he’d never see in his lifetime. David wants us to know that when God removes our sin, it becomes untouchable. God’s forgiveness is complete, sufficient, and permanent. 

When you feel discouraged, take a few minutes to read through Psalm 103 and consider the width and length and height and depth of God’s love for you in Christ (Ephesians 3:18). 

No matter what you face this week, remember God’s steadfast love and forgiveness. 

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Remember All His Benefits {No Matter What Monday}

September 7, 2020 by Marissa Leave a Comment

When my son was younger, he asked me what Labor Day was. I tried to explain its significance, but my son was not impressed. “It’s not anything exciting, then?” he asked disappointedly. Now that Labor Day means a day off school and the chance to sleep in, my teenager thinks it’s a lot more exciting! 

This month we’ll be walking through Psalm 103 and celebrating the benefits we receive from the Lord. Spoiler alert: These benefits are even better than a 3-day weekend! In this psalm, David calls himself—and all the people of God—to bless the Lord and remember all His benefits. Today we’ll start with verses 1-5: 

“Bless the LORD, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name! Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy, who satisfies you with good so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.” (Psalm 103:1-5)

God forgives. This forgiveness is complete—He forgives all your iniquity. We’ll dig into the details of this gracious forgiveness next week!

God heals. While God often heals our physical diseases, the healing the psalmist probably had in mind here is our spiritual healing from the disease of sin. As 1 Peter 2:24 says, “[Christ] himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.” 

God redeems. When you were in the pit of guilt, shame, and death, the Lord was the one who rescued you. 

God surrounds you with steadfast love and mercy. “Crown” means to encircle or surround. When you look around, do you only see your problems? Or can you see the steadfast love and mercy of God surrounding you today? 

God satisfies you and sustains you. God’s goodness fills us up and fuels us for the Christian life. 

This is not an exhaustive list of God’s benefits – and even this short list is mind-blowing! When we understand the magnitude of what we’ve received from the Lord, we respond with praise.  David wants us to not forget God’s benefits, but to remember and bless His holy name. 

No matter what you face this week, remember the benefits you’ve received from the Lord. 

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