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We Call God Our “Abba! Father!” {No Matter What Monday}

October 22, 2018 by Marissa Leave a Comment

When my son was a toddler, we went through an awkward phase when he used the word “dada” to refer to all men. I’d watch him look around the store and spot a random stranger, and I’d brace myself for what would come next. “Dada!” would fly enthusiastically from his mouth as Mr. Random Stranger looked around in confusion.

My son didn’t yet understand that the word we use to refer to his daddy was a precious name for an even-more-precious relationship. Now that he’s a teenager, he knows that the love of his father is unique. He calls him “Dad” because of the relationship they share. And we see in Galatians 4 that God has given us, His adopted children, the unique privilege of calling Him our Father:

“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba! Father!’” (Galatians 4:4-6)

In these verses, we see the work of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit bringing us into this special relationship and giving us the privilege of calling God our Father. We are adopted children because God sent forth His Son to redeem us. Just a few verses earlier, Paul tells the Galatians that “in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith” (3:26). Our adoption as sons is a free gift of God’s grace given to us on the basis of faith in Christ.

God also sent the Spirit of His Son into our hearts. Romans 8:15 tells us that we cry “Abba, Father!” because of the Spirit of adoption given to us. Because God the Father has sent both His Son and His Spirit, we can cry out to God with confidence and know that He hears the pleas of His children.

No matter what you face this week, we have the privilege of calling God our “Abba! Father!”

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Loneliness

October 22, 2012 by Marissa Leave a Comment

I have been struggling with loneliness lately.  Some if it is the typical baseline loneliness that seems to never leave.  Some of it is circumstantial and will lessen as those circumstances change.  Some of it is the additional loneliness I experience as a cancer survivor, the feeling that very few people know what it is like to be me.

 

It seems that most (all?) women experience loneliness in varying degrees.  We long for a greater quality or quantity of friendships.  We crave the companionship of someone really “gets” us, that feeling that someone understands what our life feels like.  I am blessed with a wonderful circle of friends, but loneliness still plagues me sometimes, as it has for the past few weeks.

 

Last week as I listened to a sermon on the last few verses in Matthew, I was struck by Jesus’ promise in Matthew 28:20b:

“And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

This loneliness that I feel is meant to point me to the One who knows every detail of my life.  He knows every fear, every tear, every need.

 

My Savior enjoyed the most perfect, loneliness-free existence as a member of the Trinity.  But Christ “did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself by taking the form of a servant” (Philippians 2:6-7).  I cannot imagine the loneliness Christ must have felt as He bore His Father’s wrath on the cross and cried out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”  (Matthew 27:46).  He endured this painful separation from His Father so that I can be brought into relationship with Him.

 

So the very Son of God can say to me, “I am with you always.”

 

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