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Calling God Our Father

April 17, 2023 by Marissa Leave a Comment

When my son was a toddler, we went through an awkward phase when he used the word “dada” to refer to all men. I’d watch him look around the store and spot a random stranger, and I’d brace myself for what would come next. “Dada!” would fly enthusiastically from his mouth as Mr. Random Stranger looked around in confusion. 

My son didn’t yet understand that the word we use to refer to his daddy was a precious name for an even-more-precious relationship. Now that he’s older, he knows that the love of his father is unique. He calls him “Dad” because of the relationship they share. And we see in Galatians 4:6 that God has given us, His adopted children, the unique privilege of calling Him our Father: 

“And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba! Father!’” (Galatians 4:6)

Abba is the Aramaic word for father, a word used specifically by children to refer to their fathers. Jesus cried out in prayer to His “Abba, Father” in the garden of Gethsemane (Mark 14:36). If we’ve been united to Christ by faith and adopted into God’s family, we also have the privilege of calling God our Abba, Father. We can be confident in this privilege because Jesus taught us to call on God as our Father when we pray: “Pray then like this: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name’” (Matthew 6:9). 

In Galatians 4, we see the work of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit bringing us into this special relationship and giving us the privilege of calling God our Father. We saw last week that we are adopted children because God sent forth His Son to redeem us (Galatians 4:4-5). God also sent the Spirit of His Son into our hearts. 

Paul tells us Romans 8:15 tells us that we cry “Abba, Father!” because of the Spirit of adoption given to us. He goes on to say, “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God” (Romans 8:16). Because God the Father has sent both His Son and His Spirit, we can have confidence in our status as adopted children of our heavenly Father. 

No matter what you face this week, we have the privilege of calling God our “Abba, Father.” 

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What Should I Pray For? {Guest post for Ligonier Ministries}

April 12, 2023 by Marissa Leave a Comment

Today I have the honor of sharing an article on the Ligonier Ministries website. Here’s a preview . . .


In 2010, my name was placed on many prayer lists as I battled a rare form of cancer. My friends and family, along with complete strangers, interceded on my behalf to ask God for healing; wisdom for my medical team; protection for the hearts and minds of my young children; and God’s comfort, peace, and strength through several months of treatment. As redeemed children of God, we have the privilege of coming to Him in prayer, whether for ourselves or others, amid a crisis like cancer or in the ordinary challenges of life in a fallen world.

The Westminster Larger Catechism defines prayer as “an offering up of our desires unto God, in the name of Christ, by the help of his Spirit; with confession of our sins, and thankful acknowledgement of his mercies” (WLC 178). In this definition, we learn that prayer involves confessing our sins and praising God for His goodness to us. Prayer also provides an opportunity to bring our requests to God, and that is the aspect of prayer we will focus on as we consider the question “What should I pray for?” Scripture guides and shapes our prayers by showing us how to pray for physical provision, spiritual blessings, and fruitfulness in good works for the glory of God.


You can finish reading this article on the Ligonier website. I hope it encourages you!

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Adopted by God’s grace

April 10, 2023 by Marissa 2 Comments

God’s Word describes many ways that His free gift of grace changes our lives. If we are united to Christ by faith, we receive all that He secured for us through His life, death, and resurrection: redemption, forgiveness, eternal life, and more. We’ve been looking those gifts for the past several weeks. 

One of my favorites of all the benefits we receive from Christ is our adoption as sons and daughters of God. And over the next month, we’ll take a deep dive into adoption in Galatians 4. 

“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.” (Galatians 4:4-5)

Apart from Christ, we are under the law and separated from God because of our sin. But God, in His grace and mercy, sent His Son to redeem us so we could be brought into God’s family. In 1 John 3:1, we read: “See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are.” Because of the lavish love of the Father, He sent His Son to make us His children. 

We receive this adoption by faith. Just a few verses earlier, Paul told the Galatians that “in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith” (3:26). Our adoption as sons and daughters is a free gift of God’s grace, given to us through faith in Christ. 

If our adoption is an act of God’s free grace, then we can’t earn it, and we can’t lose it. He doesn’t love us as His daughters and sons because we’re loveable, because we’re good children, or because we bring something valuable to the relationship. Notice how Galatians 4:5 says we “receive adoption.” We are passive recipients, not earning or working for our adopted status. 

Adoption is one-sided—a Father welcoming a child and giving the child all the privileges and rights that come with being part of the family. We are adopted because of the love the Father has for us and because He graciously sent His Son to redeem us. 

No matter what you face this week, you’ve been adopted by God’s free grace. 

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The Sting of Death

April 3, 2023 by Marissa Leave a Comment

A few weeks ago, I was out on a walk when I saw a bee nearby. It wasn’t the first time I’ve seen a bee, but it was the first time I didn’t run away in a panic. When I was a child, allergy testing showed that I was allergic to stinging insects, and I’ve been terrified of them ever since. But I recently had the testing redone, and it turns out that I’ve outgrown the allergy. Now a bee sting would be painful, but not dangerous. I don’t have to be afraid.  

This weekend, we will celebrate the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. Over the past several weeks, we’ve seen several gifts we receive because of His resurrection: reconciliation, forgiveness, justification, and victory. Today we’ll consider one more gift: because His resurrection made the way for our own resurrection, Christ has removed the sting of death. 

“But Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep . . . ‘Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?’” (I Cor. 15:20 and 55, NIV)

Friend, this is good news: Jesus is alive! He is our reigning King who conquered the power of death and rose victorious over the ultimate enemy. The questions here in 1 Corinthians drive home Paul’s point that death has been defeated. 

These verses also teach us that our risen Savior is the firstfruits of the resurrection. “Firstfruits” implies that there are more resurrection fruits to come! When He stepped out of the grave, He made a way for us to have new life in Him now and eternal life with Him forever. Death now has no power over those who are in Christ. 

Death is painful, and we feel we feel that pain often in this fallen world. Our nation has seen so much heartbreak lately, and we grieve with those who grieve. But even in times of sorrow, we can look at the empty grave of Christ and know that He’s robbed death of its ultimate power. We don’t have to be afraid. Jesus Christ took the sting of death for us, and we wait eagerly for the day when we feel it no more. 

No matter what you face this week, the risen Christ removed the sting of death. 

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